Conditional Love or unconditional love Do you feel the sting of rejection? Do your closest friends and even family push you away or mistreat you? I think that every emotionally healthy person wants to love and to be loved. We want people to love us as we are. We want to feel accepted no matter what we may say or do. When we make a mistake, we want to be forgiven. We want to be loved unconditionally. A problem comes though when we do not reciprocate unconditional love. For example, there will never be genuine love expressed between two people if both individuals are seeking to have their needs met. How can two people make a relationship work if both define love as, “if you love me then you will do what I want”? A gentle word like a spark of light, Illuminates my soul And as each sound goes deeper, It's YOU that makes me whole There is no corner, no dark place, YOUR LOVE cannot fill And if the world starts causing waves, It's your devotion that makes them still And yes you always speak to me, In sweet honesty and truth Your caring heart keeps out the rain, YOUR LOVE, the ultimate roof So thank you my Love for being there, For supporting me, my life I'll do the same for you, you know, My Beautiful, Darling Wife. the risk is that you'll surely lose the person for lifetime..