In my mind, the best relationships start out from the seeds of a good friendship. Moving at break-neck speed into something intense is not my style...unless we are talking about bungee jumping...then I'm in. :). I gravitate towards women who have strong soft skills – polished, presentable, and respectful, have strong values, and are emotionally mature. In addition, women that are grounded, down to earth, who like to stay active, take physical care of themselves, and who have strong family values, hold respect for young, middle aged, and the elderly, tolerance towards friends and family, and those who understand the difference between possessive and real love (but don’t live in their mother’s basement!). Words that might describe me are: authentic, grounded, adventurous, easy to talk to, trust-worthy and warm. I don’t have any pride or jealousy in my spirit. I give with my heart and soul. I think that healthy relationships are based on genuine and respectful honesty. If you are open and emotionally available...we are likely to be a good match. I like to try new adventures and stretch my capabilities...so am looking for someone who also approaches life in a fun-spirited way. Bonus points if you like to travel...have a spiritual side...and enjoy holding hands. I was once told that I live outside the BOX with a bit of an edge. I guess I'll let you be the judge of that. :)