My ideal mate must fear her lord be willing to be taught and adhere and love to do the do. She must also be obedient and not be self centered.Also there is nothing wrong with being a modern muslim woman but sister you know t heat heels and make up are reserved for ur husband not outside. Also sisters their is no such thing as a salafi brother the word salafi means predacesser . The salaf were the first two generations after the prophet(saw). If u want a brother that follows quran and the sunnah u have to b willing to do the same. And remember this deen was completed by our lord so we can't add to it or take away from it this deen is perfect.