Black

Brown

Average

5'  9"   (175 cm)

South African

Black / African descent

No

Yes

Muslim

Some College

Technical Science / Engineering

I'll tell you later

Regularly

English

2 or more inshaallah

Yes. Just be easy on the eyes, inshaallah someone I can look at and be satisfied with. I’m sure that does not mean you have to look abnormal/ no need to look drop dead beautiful. I don’t want to die when I see you. But if you are drop dead beautiful, just take it easy on me and cover up inshaallha. At the least, let me die a happy married man, don’t kill me before that please.

it’s a natural stage that we get to, were we feel it ourselves that the time has come to complete our Deen. It’s something special, a joining with the persons whom Allah has selected for you and delivers to you, Inshallah. And by deliver to you, we are not talking about the one you like because his hair is nice or the his car is sitting on 22inch rims; no! Allah does not work in that why sisters. We are talking Deen, we are talking personality, we are talking about his outlook on life, we are talking about conduct, we are talking about his intensions in his life and how all of that will affect you in the future. And by the sister, we as brothers we question the same about you. I think marriage is a beautiful gift from Allah. Just to add on, if i may; I feel I need a person who as much as she is light hearted, has a sense of hummer and likes this and that (no problem); but you need to be a strong, kind, confident (not into yourself/ or boastful), modest, homely who understand and appreciate the importance of keeping a well balance home and relationship. I don’t mind if you want to work for as long as you don’t compromise our marriage or Deen, “Wallahi”, I don’t mind if you want to be a house wife for as long as you are prepared to take on the responsibilities ether way. For example, if you expect to be at home the doing nothing, not taking pride in the cleanliness of your house/ home, not taking pride in the cleanliness of yours/ your husband’s or your children’s cleanliness, you are not using whatever level of education to perhaps help your husband in his affairs (just a thought to advice the man in his efforts), you are not meeting with other woman and helping the community along with fulfilling your duties at home…… then my sister you are planning not to be my wife. I would rather come home to a modestly beautiful and humble comfortable housewife, who has prepared a comfortable home for us, a decent plate of food, has maintained herself for me, has learned one or two subject on our Deen, she talks to me from her heart then come home to a drop dead woman who will kill me slowly. Inshaallah, that is you. By the way, I don’t ever want to be divorced.

Allah is the best of planers, be patient even when it’s difficult. Allah is doing what he has planned. Stop resisting. I can not change everything and that witch I can not change was not meant for me to change. IE: let it go dear boy, trust in Allah and all shall be well.

Unity, openness, friendship of husband and wife, peace, being able to disagree modestly and agree to disagree if need be, to have the better interest of one and other, to respect one and other and to be the keepers of each other and each other’s families in prayers. Be honest and patient.

They say if you want to make Allah laugh, tell him about your plans. I have dreams that I work on daily. But we can talk further about that when the time comes, inshaallah.