New in town, looking for companionship.

Well i'm looking for my own Ms Right. Ideally smart, witty, beautiful internally and externally (to my eyes). Importantly someone who is willing to be themselves, communicate, discuss and stand up for their point of view and beliefs if needed. What I'm do NOT want is anyone submissive. I don't expect my partner to cook or clean up for me if she wishes to then thats her choice, all I want is for us to be happy together in a loving relationship and lay a solid foundation for our future experiences. Apparently I am a bit different in that I still believe in the concept of Love, but that's me, I need to believe that there is something more than just liking a person. However, I don't consider love to be a fairytale, to me its key interaction factors that will help me realise that I have found my one special person. But almost as importantly as everything i have listed above i want..actually no, I need someone who will make me a want to become better person, someone who i can love more than life itself.