I would like you to have an idea of who you are and what you want from life, if you have a life plan that would be perfect. I like making lists of what I want to achieve and it would be great to make a list with you about what we could achieve. Similarly, with lists and life plans, I think we’d get on well if you valued your independence but also recognised the importance of looking after family. It’s a bit of a challenge I know, and a difficult balance but with your strength of personality and values, I reckon you’d be able to do it. I think we’d bounce off each other if we both shared the same passion for slightly lefty liberal thinking and social activism. With your intelligence, values and morals I’m hoping you will be able to ground me in faith and reality. I’m hoping we can help each other develop our interests, skills and abilities, providing new experiences to learn from. The rest I’m sure we can work out.