Allah's Favor

I am currently thirty-four years old with children. Im at a point in life where im beginning to understand how life fits into the deen. I am far from perfect but im not a kafir. I do believe in Allah and I know that their isnt any conceivable happiness without Allahs guidence. I am looking for a sister to enjoy the time that we have left striving for our Lords pleasure and have a little fun along the way ourselves. I really concerned with whether or not a sister works, goes to school, or is a stay at home wife. I understand some of the dynamics of it all. I am currently enrolled in school myself while working.