Asalaamu Aleikam. I will not respond to anyone out of the country. I care for my mum who will be 90 yrs old in a few months. Mashallah. I am truly blessed. Mum is independent, but I am her protector. She is healthy and independent. I oversee her heathcare and wellness. Mom is Christian but accepts me as Muslima. I asked mum if she likes the Muslima or Christian girl. She selected the Muslima girl. She is so happy. Al hamdillah. As a revert my goal is to be a better person and daughter overall. Anyway, I would like someone strong in Islam to help become a better Muslima. I am not interested on becoming a 2nd wife. I am divorced with no children.. Shukran. Jakallah khair