As Salaam'u'Alaikum, I have been on sites like this before and they have not worked for me. Let me tell you why...1.Woman write me from countries outside of the United States of America. I love Africa but if you do not live in the USA I am not interested. 2.Woman write me who are still married or working on a divorce. I am not interested in you if you are married I do not care how bad your relationship is. We are followers of Allah and should act according to his laws on marriage. Its in the Quran. 3.Woman write me from outside of the Tri-State area of which I live. I am only interested in woman who live in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Delaware and Baltimore. I will also consider travel to New York. Its just easier that way. 4.Woman write me who are not truly interested in being married. I do not want a phone pal,pen pal or internet buddie. I am here to fulfill the second half of my religion. I am here to meet my wife. Be it the will of Allah you are here for the same. If so than feel free to contact me or have your wali contact me. One more reason these sites never work for me is that many of the woman that write me are big woman. To my bigger sisters out there I want to say that there are many brothers out there that will love you to no end. You are all beautiful woman; its just that I am into woman of slim to average build. I am slim myself and want the same in my wife. One more thing, I am a Quran only Muslim. I know Islam and only follow the word of Allah. Salaam