“Heart been broke so many times, I… don’t know what to belieeeeeve…”

Lol jk. Before you read on, PLEASE BE ADVISED: - I am a divorced single mom of two boys (7 and 4) - I don’t want to have more kids of my own but I would be completely elated to welcome stepkiddos into my life in sha Allah - I’m a bit too weak-hearted for polygamy - I would really appreciate a man who doesn’t drink or smoke pretty please - I would like to marry without doing too much “courting” — if we click, I’d like for my future husband to trust Allah and be willing to continue getting to know me after we are married, as I believe that’s honestly the only real way Allah puts true love between a man and a woman Salaams everyone! I’m Naimah, a Sudanese and African American Muslimah and mother of two. I speak English and Sudanese Arabic (but I can understand a few other languages and dialects as well!) About me: - Aspiring author, part-time editor and proofreader, full-time university student pursuing a Bachelor’s in English (Creative Writing) - MAJOR nerd o_o - INFJ with secure-to-anxious attachment - main two love languages are physical touch/quality time (IYKYK :D) I am human, so of course I crave what many people do… a life partner to connect with and take this journey to Jannah with. I just want to do it the right way. TL;DR - single Black Muslim mama of two looking to find her hubby and avoid zinaa (adultery)