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Dawakin Tofa, Kano
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In their own words

Charming sister :)) wishing all here, Success.

Heartfelt salaams to you. I pray ALLAH Most High, Blesses every Brother & Sister here with Fufillment. Aamin, Ya Rabb. Despite my best efforts to avoid winding paths to no where, I fell. Or rather stumbled down one, since we never actually met in person. Turns out the man wasnt really looking for marriage. Just a sparring partner on the phone...and Lord knows what else, besides. So. If you are only actually looking for entertainment, sincerely, do not waste any more time reading me. Please. Also, with all respect to my younger Brothers, I appreciate you very profoundly. And I am touched. May ALLAH Most Gracious Bless you ALL, each with a Good Wife. Amen. But the age 55 you see up there, is my real age. Plus a few months too! Why Im not uploading a photo: Having read & SEEN so many profiles of inherently good & great people I feel obliged to explain. I've never been very publicity seeking e.g. im a print journalist. I avoid TV & radio though the multimedia environment today can be tricky. But, in the conservative society I live in, advertising my single status with my face for all to see - potential husband or no (thousands of men, all over the world! Yikes!) - just makes my stomach do cartwheels.. ! If u 'get' what im saying then maybe u will be interested enough for me to shower u with a few photos!!! :) ( Smile) I promise. So are you interested? And I have faith - Iman and Yaqeen - in a good outcome for all sincere seekers.

5'  4"   (163 cm)
Family Roots
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Has Kids
Wants Kids
I'll tell you later
Master's Degree
Executive / General Manager / Consulting
I'll tell you later
What languages do you speak?
English, Other, French
Favorite Artists
Anthony Hopkins, Sean Connery, Traditional Hausa Architects, Sade Adu, UB40, Alicia Keys, Emma Thompson, Cate Blanchet, Sam Cooke, the Temptations, Cole Porter( Night& Day), Billie Holiday, Swing out Sister....
Favorite Athletes
Mohammed Salah, Kareem Abduljabar, late Rasheed Yekini,Naomi Osaka
Favorite Authors
Late John Le Carre, Ha Joon Chang, Abubakar Imam, Flannery O'Connor,Chinua Achebe, Ibn Khaldoon, Ustadh Abdullah Yusuf Ali (RahimuLlahualaihi)
Favorite Books
Smiley's People, Confessions of An Economic Hitman
Favorite Cities
Medina, Istanbul, New York, Kano, Jos, London &...I dream of visiting Cordoba insha Allah
Favorite Clothing Stores
Bendown :) ( A sort of fleamarket, pavement 'store' in Nigeria!!!)
Favorite Colors
Blue. All shades- midnight, navy , sky...
Favorite Country
Favorite Magazines
The Economist. (Their old editions are like food to me: the brief,pithy, powerful headlines e.g. their 2008 Obama cover ' Almost there.' It was Beauuutiful.)
Favorite Sports
(Watching!) athletics, Swimming.
Favorite Foods
Salads....smoked Salmon, Seafood & Tea, tea..
All creatures great & small..precious ayats.
Signposts of our human foibles. Interesting.
More ayats!
Yes. But what about biking? Thats fun too.
The best of humanity.
Community Service
Try to.
Surely an art! Bt, ofcourse a necessity.
Down time is usually 'watch television time' but a good film is truly a pleasure. I like real life historical dramas & epics... my fave movie? Has to be 'Gladiator'. & 'The Message' by Mustapha Akkad, may Allah Grant him paradise. Amin.
On my bucket list..
Used to be easy & fun, the internet makes it complicated now...This mindless, endless browsing is not healthy to me. So I dont read as much ):
Islam & all this great religion has taught me is the fulcrum of my life.
Only fun when one has lots of money & time to spare.. So not really my thing.
Have often thought: another time & place & I could hv been Sade Adu's sister! NB. Nobody else thinks so tho
Sky Diving
No way.
The Internet & Digital revolution is breathtaking. Im not a techie but I believe that with digital tech we can leapfrog developing country solutions e.g. like Rwanda is doing. My countrymen really need to get their act together. Insha Allah.
Grew up travelling due to father's job & I guess the bug has never left me......i love sight seeing, discovering new people & places & coming home finally to savour it all. Its a Blessed world we live in, if only we knew.
My fave form of exercise. Yes.
My one easy ability..i think. Well it is basically my work too!
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Mood Somewhat Chill
Sociability Average
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Average
Energy Somewhat High
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Late
Spending Very Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Describe your perfect weekend.
Alone or with The one ( you) ? Alone: great scenery like a park or garden,or the beach, or at home, having cleaned & put all in order, a good book& a delicious salad, capped by a flavour-filled cup of tea & a great film before bed. With The One: more or less the same except for the book. That would be replaced by long, deep conversation undisturbed by the world!
How many kids would you like to have?
Im passed having kids myself but I love them & they seem to love me - so bring on YOUR kids or if we decide: orphans in need of parents, insha Allah.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
A person's style, grooming & manners are more important to me than just physical looks ... e.g: confidence & humility, easy going, kind, good manners....( oh dear. Guess I'm asking for too much right?) ).
What is the purpose of marriage?
Companionship for greater success in this world & the hereafter, insha Allah ta'ala.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
That good character means little these days, unfortunately.
What do your friends like about you most?
My humour & I believe, kindness.
What gets on your nerves?
Inconsiderate rudeness & arrogance.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Respect. Then, Communication: verbal, emotional, written, physical, honest & sincere et al.. etc !
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Making good on my commitments (like marriage!); enjoying a legacy of good. Insha Allah
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