love yourself and others will love you too

Im a man who knows what he wants out of life and i want a woman who is the same way,I love spotaneous,out-going,adventurous,smart,sexy,spiritually grounded and carismatic.I am a man thatnever bits my toungue a straight shooter.Im looking for a woman who can add to my situation not take away from it,a woman that has been places and done things like myself.I love sports,art,anime,computer games,people with open heart and minds,hearts and feelings.I want a woman who is a reflection of me,but also has her own ways and mannerisms.I want a woman that will take and also give direction.I want to get to know awoman for a friendship then see where it goes...