About me and the type of man I would like for myself

I was born in Jacksonville Fl. I have just moved back to Fl. from Acapulco. I like to play golf and I love cats. I have two kids grown and gone... I like going to Hawaii I have been 7 times, beautiful place. I am nice most of the time, but can be head strong, and I would like to be with someone who will love me and not abuse me, as I have been abused in the past. I am American, but not the same as most. I want to be spoiled and treated like royalty... I only want to be friends at first not intimate and see what happens...